843 Ways to Lead a Simple Life

843 Ways to Lead a Simple Life

This post is not an attempt to make fellow writers and bloggers look bad.

What this post is – hopefully a conversation opener about a conundrum in the self improvement world.

The Mania of Simplicity

Simplicity – it’s a big word right now.  In our manic, over-scheduled, too little sleep, too many details lives many of us are yearning for a simple existence.  And many others are cashing in on that yearning.  Now, don’t get me wrong – I’m a big supporter of people being able to see financial gain through helping others and our world.  In fact, I’d much rather give my money to someone who is doing good, and I believe most of the people writing on the subject of simplicity really are trying to do good.

However, as any writer can tell you, in order to have a constantly returning audience, you must keep coming up with good content.  If you’re in the blogging world, that may mean coming up with content 2 or 3 times per week.  Believe me – it’s not easy!  So, my question is, how can anyone write a constant stream on the subject of simplicity?  I mean, doesn’t the very act of producing mountains of information go against the tenants of simplicity itself?

I tried googling some terms to see how much information is out there.  Here are the results;

“simple living” – 107,000,000 results

“simple living blog” – 46,500,000

“simple living book”   – 24,800,000

Let’s take a look at some titles from folks listed as writing about simplicity:

  • “The Road Less Traveled: Top 100 Simple Living Blogs”
  • “How to Survive a 14 Hour Work Day”
  • “20 Tips to Keep from Spending Money”
  • “Making Your Natural Adrenaline Moments Work for You”
  • “52 Uses for Rubber Bands”
  • “Simple Living Manifesto: 72 Ideas to Simplify Your Life”

You get the idea. I feel tired already.

How can we truly live simple lives in this barrage of information?  Can we?

A Little History

Simplicity is not a new idea.  You can find the same values in our world’s most ancient religions.

From Buddha  – “To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one’s own in the midst of abundance.”

From Lao Tzu - “Manifest plainness, Embrace simplicity, Reduce selfishness, Have few desires.”

From Jesus – “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.  But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

For thousands of years humans have recognized the virtues of simplicity.  Think about it, Jesus was preaching the virtues of simplicity to audiences of people, many of whom were probably fishermen, shepherds and the like.  How complicated could their lives have been?  How much simpler did they want to be?  What exactly did simplicity mean to them?

Gandhi's Possessions

Gandhi's Possessions

In our modern times simplicity has become intertwined with the concept of downsizing and frugality. But is that really what it’s about?  Consider Gandhi.  Gandhi downsized about as much as any human being can.  In fact, the picture here is a photo of all Gandhi’s worldly possessions at the time of his death.  I challenge any modern day nomad to top that!  But was Gandhi’s life simple?  I would say not.  As a leader of the masses, constantly in the public eye, how could a person’s life be simple?

What’s Simplicity About?

Simplicity is not only about having few possessions.  Simplicity is also structural and internal.  A lot of writers address the structural state – how to simplify your house, your office, your schedule.  Other writers go for the internal – how to meditate, clear your mind, live in the moment etc.  There’s a lot of good stuff out there on the subject of simplicity but that’s exactly the problem.  There’s a LOT.  That’s not simple.

Here at NuNomad we’re all about becoming location independent and traveling indefinitely while you maintain your income.  Somehow, in recent times, a location independent lifestyle has also become mixed with the concept of simplicity.  Let me tell you, while it’s possible to eventually achieve a simpler existence, becoming location independent can be far from simple.  You might get your meager backpack and laptop into a one room hut on a beach somewhere but if your mind is buzzing with where you’re going to get good wifi so that you can connect with your clients, making sure you do your visa run on time, planning for Aunt Gracie’s visit,  keeping your social networking going, planning your next destination, etc., etc., life isn’t so simple.

Who Leads a Simple Life and Do I Want That?

So, I ask myself, who really does lead a simple life? It’s impossible to know the inner workings of a person’s mind so I can’t guess about who has the simplest mindset, but from the outside, it seems to me those people with the simplest lives are the people whose day is spent in activity to produce the things they need for survival in places where survival is reasonably easy.  For instance, the woman who sells tamales at the market from a basket in the day.  I’m sure her family eats what she does not sell and they use the money from the sales to finance the other things they need to sustain themselves.  Outside of this work for survival she probably doesn’t have many other life complications if the people in her family are healthy.

A person with such a life may have very low stress and be quite happy at least during the times that their basic needs are being met.  But this person also probably will never know the world at a larger level and may never even desire to.  I have to admit – I wouldn’t want that.

As a person who has been educated about the larger world and who knows all the possibilities of what life can offer, I think I’ve been ruined for true simplicity.  My selfish desire to see more and do more overrides my yearning for simplicity and so, to be honest, I lead a pretty complicated life and I love it that way!

We Don’t Want Simple Lives

And so, now I’ll do the ever dangerous act of presuming.  Here goes.

I think most of us in 1st world countries don’t really want simple lives when it comes down to it.  We think we do and in our mania we go around reading mountains of information and memorizing 52 ways to use a rubber band to make our lives “simpler”.  How crazy is that?

We say we want simpler lives but most of us aren’t willing to let go of our freedoms to choose activities, move about the world or provide our kids with great educations.  Face it, unless you’re independently wealthy, paring your life down to the simplicity of a tamale seller is probably going to mean giving up a lot.  I’ll put money down that most of us won’t do it.

Will we downsize? Yes.  Will we act frugally? Yes.  Will we give up our complicated life structures that allow us our freedoms?  I don’t think we will.  And so, simplicity might be the ever elusive concept we don’t attain.

  • http://www.nunomad.com Ricardo

    You know, Carmen, back in the 80s when the cliche “Live Simply so Others May Simply Live” was popular bumper-sticker, I never did affix it onto my car. And I think the reason were two-fold: back then I equated living simply as defeatist. And, those who lived simpler lives (like your tamale seller example) enjoyed the benefit of a less manic life. (So, why make a social statement about it?) But I think the point I've learned over the years is that there's a difference between living a more simple life and being able to enjoy one. And the later is not easy to do (even if you come from money and are slumming it). As you've said (we've said) many times, you've got to organize your life in such a way that you'll actually be able to take advantage of life's easier path. And it's not just about financial security, but maintaining intellectual stimuli and having something left in the bank for later. That said, let me type out here a couple common example that I've seen.

    I've spent most of the past 9 years in Asia. Thailand has been my base for most of it. When I lived on the islands I met countless travelers who worked their asses off at home for six months out of the year to be able to spend the next six months in the lazy tropics. While on the island, however, they were forced to live in the cheapest accommodations and eat and drink the least expensive food. They spent most of their times in hammocks not thinking about their next move. However, at the end of their time in the tropics, they were depressed and unready for the grind that waited them at home. (Sound familiar?)

    In Bangkok, where I've kept an apartment for a few years now, I'm around a lot of expat English teachers. The majority have chosen to leave the comforts and complexities of their Western world lives permanently, for that of the genteelness of Thailand (or Laos, Vietnam, etc.) But soon they come to the very sobering reality that they are working nearly as hard now (due to third-world income opportunities) as they did before, but with fewer dollars (euros, pounds or baht) left to enjoy and to save for later. Why? Well, probably for many reasons but a key one is that they did not prepare their life prior to coming to the country in a way that would ensure an easier-living lifestyle. This preparation takes hard work, sacrifice, introspection and planning–time! It's not unlike the sacrifices one makes by going to college.

    As for me, I had spent the first few years nomading working only 4 hours a week. But in the ever-demanding professional world I found that one needs to keep on top of their profession which does not happen if you're snorkeling, hiking and lounging when you should be taking care of business. Not only that, but after the experience of actually living the life of one who is on perpetual holiday, I found myself hungering for much of the stimuli I had left behind in my home country. So, these days I'm now finding myself working up to 4 hours a day. But I think that's not only because I need to keep working to ensure my career and income base, but because I'm not one to simply do little. It's ironic that now that I can live the simpler life in the simpler environment I live in, I find it needs to be balanced with stimulating and challenging inputs.

    In the end, I think that designing a simple living lifestyle takes a lot more work than the traditional one. You really have to work it.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      You make a good point here, Richard, that we as human beings actually innately enjoy a sense of purpose and stimuli. As members of technologically advanced countries we are accustomed to a lot of stimuli – too much most of the time. And yet very little stimuli can eventually lead us to feel bored. Same with our work. If you're able to work at something you love, then doing too little can actually lead to a lost sense of purpose. Sounds like you experienced that after a few years of a 4 hour work week. Ideally, we can get ourselves to a place where we can choose how much work and how much stimuli we each need in order to feel our happiest. Thanks for the thoughtful comment!

  • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

    mmmm, interesting thought.

    I have a similar thought on this as well – some ways become simpler, while others become more complicated.
    The internet age is perfect for that: It's supposed to make everything simpler – but using facebook, twitter and every other social media platform has made the world more complex. It's a paradox, so perfectly human ;)

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      You know, technology has a lot of ability to simplify certain things for us but if we continue as high powered, competitive beings in the way that we use it we create more complexity for ourselves rather than simplicity.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      You know, technology has a lot of ability to simplify certain things for us
      but if we continue as high powered, competitive beings in the way that we
      use it we create more complexity for ourselves rather than simplicity.

      NuNomad

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  • http://www.getinthehotspot.com/ Get In The Hot Spot

    Life does get more complicated and it's good to get away from all the technology and gadgets. But not forever! They do have their uses:)

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Definitely, like most things it's all about balance.

  • http://untamedbeer.com Brian

    Simplifying is obviously a complicated issue, and I'm not going to pretend to have any answers. My philosophy is that simplifying my life is an ongoing process, it's not something I can arrive at and say, “Yep, I'm done, my life is simple.”

    It requires constant evaluation of my possessions, activities and thoughts. Over time I acquire new stuff, start new activities and accept more responsibilities. I do this until I notice that I've started getting stressed out, then I have to take a look at all this new stuff and see what I don't need. I purge the unneeded or counterproductive things, activities, thoughts, attitudes, and kind of start over.

    I hope that as I get older and gain experience, I'm able to more quickly discern what is needed and what isn't, both in terms of possessions and how I spend my time. Maybe someday I'll reach enlightenment and complete peace. Until then, I keep trying my best to keep it simple.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Well said Brian. Thanks for the thoughtful comment. My experience is similar to yours in that simplifying is an ongoing process that goes through ups and downs. I also agree that it includes activities, thoughts, and attitudes as well as “stuff”. And we don't always have control of all those variables. We could be in a phase of our lives that feels good and simple and then a life event can occur that changes everything for a while, such as the serious illness of a loved one. All we can do, as you say, is keep trying and keep re-evaluating.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Well said Brian. Thanks for the thoughtful comment. My experience is
      similar to yours in that simplifying is an ongoing process that goes through
      ups and downs. I also agree that it includes activities, thoughts, and
      attitudes as well as “stuff”. And we don't always have control of all those
      variables. We could be in a phase of our lives that feels good and simple
      and then a life event can occur that changes everything for a while, such as
      the serious illness of a loved one. All we can do, as you say, is keep
      trying and keep re-evaluating.

      NuNomad

  • TMFproject

    Hey, guys–

    Thought this might interest you. A reader on my blog brought it to my attention, and I was fascinated. His name is Mark Boyle, out of the UK, and he's referred to as “The No Money Man.” He's creating an existence for himself where he doesn't use money at all. Interesting!

    http://www.guardian.co.uk/environment/video/201…

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Thanks for sending the link! Pretty amazing what can be accomplished with no money if you're determined not to spend. While most of us probably won't get to quite that extreme it's inspiring to think about how much we could save if we're willing to put in the effort and let go of preconceived notions.

  • Serena Makofsky

    What an interesting post and comments. I was thinking about simplicity today when I saw two parents drop off the children at school and then lean against their motorcycle to read the paper. It fascinated me that, after the hubbub of getting two children ready for school and the mad whirl to get there, they could then pause rather than rushing off to work or other obligations. I think that's the type of simplicity I strive for, encapsulated in a moment rather than defining my whole lifestyle.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      It's a good point. If we can be mentally present in those fleeting moments
      and be grateful for the simplicity within them we could probably all feel
      less stressed. I definitely feel that our everyday lives in Oaxaca are
      simpler than they were in the US. Just getting rid of the constant “drive
      the kids to school, lessons, practice” life in the car simplifies my life
      greatly.

      NuNomad

  • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

    It’s a good point. If we can be mentally present in those fleeting moments
    and be grateful for the simplicity within them we could probably all feel
    less stressed. I definitely feel that our everyday lives in Oaxaca are
    simpler than they were in the US. Just getting rid of the constant “drive
    the kids to school, lessons, practice” life in the car simplifies my life
    greatly.

    NuNomad

  • Anonymous

    Very thought provoking piece – thank you. I have thought about this some too -mention it on my site but haven’t done the longer post I planned on it yet – that one of the things most sites advise (and I do it myself) is getting rid of most of your stuff etc. But then again – is it fair to do that, and then visit someone’s comfortable house and enjoy all THEIR stuff – all the quality kitchen tools, for example? As travelers, we often find ourselves in snug, comfortable and beautiful well-appointed homes of friends and acquaintances – but it is paradoxical to enjoy that and say people should get rid of everything!
    I do have a theory on this that has slowly formed in my mind about this conundrum, and hopefully will get a page up on it sometime soon (although I am gearing up for another round the world trip, so time is tight!)

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