Give Thanks for the Simple Gift of Lifestyle Design

Give Thanks for the Simple Gift of Lifestyle Design

Being outside of our home country (the U.S.) this year I’ve had a great opportunity to re-think my relationship to U.S. holidays from afar.  It’s a strange feeling to know that all your friends and family are celebrating a well known holiday at home while you’re in a place that’s just going through the motions of a regular work day.  I’ve enjoyed meditating somewhat on the meaning of holidays and whether our celebrations really reflect their original impulse.

And so I was lying here on the couch in Brazil last night thinking about Thanksgiving back home and bringing up memories of this holiday in the past.  What came to me was a song – an old Shaker dance song (I thought it was a hymn but got corrected by Wikipedia) that has come to be widely used as a traditional Thanksgiving song.  Suddenly, as the words and tune passed through my mind I heard it in a completely different way.  I heard a meaning for all of us nomads and wanted to share it here.

Simple Gifts

‘Tis a gift to be simple.”Tis a gift to be free.

“Tis a gift to come down where we ought to be.

And when we find ourselves in the place just right

‘Twill be in the valley of love and delight.

It is a gift – isn’t it.  I mean, the ability to be freed from a cubicle or any other job that requires we stay in one place.  The ability to travel the world and maintain our incomes.  The ability to see wonders around the globe that few have the opportunity to see.  And the ability to maintain contact with our loved ones, and even make new connections electronically while we live this dream.  We are incredibly blessed.

So many of us are pursuing simplicity and riddance from the materialism of our home countries and yet that is a gift in itself. That we have the luxury to pursue simplicity when so many don’t have basic needs.  Again, we have been blessed.

The last two lines here also stood out to me. “And when we find ourselves in the place just right ’twill be in the valley of love and delight”.  We spend a lot of time talking about what city is most beautiful, where the best wifi is, what country has the best economic value for our currency, where can you find cultural opportunities and beautiful beaches at the same time.  We each have that “just right” place in our minds.  Many of us travel non-stop in search of it.  But in the end, the “right place” is where we feel loved, isn’t it?

And so, on this Thanksgiving holiday I want to thank the universe for all these blessings and to humbly acknowledge that I have done nothing to be deserving of such fortune.  Whether you celebrate Thanksgiving or not, take a moment to think about all the people and all the circumstances that make your lifestyle possible and give thanks!

  • http://www.rockstarlifestyledesign.com Greg Rollett

    This was refreshing Carmen. I was thinking about Thanksgiving and some of my world traveling friends. It was funny when I was going over our launch schedule and I said I wouldn't be online much Thursday and Friday and one of our designers was like why? And he had lived in California for the first 20 something years of his life.

    I really like how you ended the post. We are all on a quest to find that one place or one feeling – "the right place." I agree that the right place is where you are surrounded by the best people that put you in the best mood – a natural high. That could be family, your kids, wife or just some buddies that make you relax even in the most tense situations – that is the "right place" for me.

    Have a great Thanksgiving!
    My recent post Is Your Lifestyle Business a Garage Sale

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  • http://twitter.com/MattWilsontv @MattWilsontv

    Hi Carmen, it's so important to be thankful all the time–especially around thanksgiving. It's something I try to add into my daily routine, being grateful for what I have–it allows me to appreciate every day, instead of playing for the end game like so many entrepreneurs do.

    Have a great Thanksgiving in Brazil

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  • http://twitter.com/robgranholm @robgranholm

    I'm with Greg, my first reaction was ….wow that's refreshing. Thanks for sharing this…I'm so glad sometimes our cares, love, and realizations follow us all over the globe. I share in the same blessings you've mentioned here…and thank you for reminding me of them! Have a great turkey day.

  • http://thejourneyisourgoal.com Casey

    I really liked that song. Never heard it before. I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving in Brazil. I am sure you'll celebrate it with some Brazilian flair.
    My recent post Photo of the Week: Paddling Along the Mekong in Vietnam

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/NuNomad NuNomad

    Hi everyone, Thanks so much for your comments. Usually try to answer everyone individually but as soon as I posted today I've come down with some kind of flu or something. I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving! Since I'm sick, I'm really glad not to have to cook.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=688957949 Richard Hamel

    Carmen,
    I arrived in BKK this morning (about 3AM!) and just had dinner with an American friend of mine who has been living here for about a year. I had to remind her that tomorrow (Thailand Time) is Thanksgiving. She reminded me that everyday is Thanksgiving–or should be.
    Sorry to read that you've come down with something. Time for emergency action: copious amounts of vitamin C, water and good cheer!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/NuNomad NuNomad

      Hey Richard, Your friend makes a good point that we should remember our blessings every day. In fact, I used to train in Authentic Happiness Coaching and one of the exercises given to people for greater happiness was to remember 3 blessings each day and be thankful. Today I am thankful that I'm feeling better and also that I'm not having to cook! (even though I do enjoy it normally)

  • http://twitter.com/drewpeneton @drewpeneton

    As much of a countrywide nomad myself, much of my time is spent reflecting on spending time with family and friends. I am thankful for the opportunities I have to travel the country, see new things and meet new people. At the same time, I am thankful to be home this holiday with the family I cherish the most. We all appreciate the reminder that no matter where we are, when we are loved the most is the right place to be.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/NuNomad NuNomad

      Well said, Drew. I hope you enjoy the day with your family. I think I have gotten over my flu of the last couple of days and so I am spending Thanksgiving thankful for being well and enjoying reading comments like yours.

  • http://www.migrationology.com Migration Mark

    Great Post! For you and I (nomads) the ability to be able to travel and see new things is definitely a gift. Some people tend to focus on the hardships or the pains in life, without thinking or being thankful for the wonderful things that are evident around. There are often simple things or small gifts that make a large impact.
    You can also feel love from half or full way around the world.
    Have an awesome Thanksgiving!
    My recent post Thanksgiving Tube Steak…Surprise!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/NuNomad NuNomad

      You're so right that love can be felt from across the world. Another blessing we have is the technology that allows us to communicate with our loved ones from almost any corner of the earth. My family sat in front of the laptop yesterday on skype video calling our extended family who is celebrating Thanksgiving in Connecticut. There were 8 of us in all (and will probably be more today). It was almost as good as sitting in the living room together. I contrast this to 1988 when I was in Japan and would wait to make my weekly phone call home from a nearby hotel whose phone permitted international calling. I would stand in a phone booth and have a short call once per week because it was all I could afford – and no chance of video. It's completely different now!

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    Hey , it is Thanksgiving Day! I’m enjoying my extra day off, and I am planning to doing something fun that’ll probably involve a car trip and seeing something new in Vineyard I haven’t seen yet.
    You write something new at Thanksgiving?

  • http://www.exploretruth.com veron

    Well I'm not a nomad(yet), but I really appreciate the ideals of simplicity, and the spirit of thankfulness. To be able to travel, learn, earn, and grow your way around the world, is truly an amazing gift, and one that I'm beginning to see is more and more possible. Thanks for the insight.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/NuNomad NuNomad

      Hi Veron,
      Welcome to the site. Yes, location independence is definitely possible! Let us know how we can help with your efforts to be a nomad.

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