You Know You’re a Third Culture Kid When….

You Know You’re a Third Culture Kid When….

This morning I received and e-mail from one of our NuNomad buddies, Milosh Zorica.  Milosh has been a part of our blog since we interviewed him in November of 2008 (click here for Milosh Zorica – Graphic Designer on the Move) and I again used some of Milosh’s thoughts on crossing borders in Bordering on Madness.

Milosh is a hard-core nomad who occasionally emails me from many different parts of the world.  He works as a graphic designer.  If you’d like to see his stuff, check it out at Coroflot.

Today Milosh sent this fun list on how to know you’re a Third Culture Kid and I thought many of you nomads might resonate with it!  Thanks Milosh!

You know you’re a TCK (Third Culture Kid) when:

1) You struggle to answer the question “where are you from?”
2) You speak two (or more) languages but can’t spell in them.
3) You are asked, “Where are you from?” has more than one reasonable answer
4) You feel odd being in the ethnic majority
5) You look like everyone else around you but still don’t fit in
6) You have the urge to move to a new place every couple of years
7) You go into culture shock upon returning to your “home” country
8) You have a passport, but no driver’s license
9) You don’t know where home is (besides saying, “planet earth”, which is usually not accepted)
10) Your life story uses the phrase “Then we moved to…” three (or four, or five…) times.
11) You think VISA is a document that’s stamped in your passport, not a plastic card you carry in your wallet.
12) You sort your friends by continent not color or religion.
13) You believe vehemently that football is played with a round, spotted ball.
14) You feel that multiple passports would be appropriate.
15) Half of your phone calls are unintelligible to those around you.
16) You know the geography of the rest of the world, but you don’t know the geography of your “own” country.
17) You’ve gotten out of school because of monsoons, bomb threats, and/or popular demonstrations.
18) You often speak of your “home” country in the third person as if it were not yours.
19) You constantly get labeled being from another country than “yours”. (Usually one you lived in at one point.)
20) You have friends from more than 30 different countries.
21) You realize it really is a small world, after all.

Feel free to add.

You can connect with Milosh at any of the following places:

Linked In

http://www.linkedin.com/in/miloshzorica

Coroflot

Milosh is a Co-Founder of Loana Technology, a media streaming and digital assets protection startup

Photo by: Loungerie

  • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

    I would add:
    22) You get asked a question and accidentally answer in a sentence with words from 2 different languages.

  • http://jetsetcitizen.com/ John Bardos – JetSetCitizen

    Someone recently asked where I was from and I stumbled for a moment and then said, nowhere. I like the idea of 'Third Culture.' That explains a lot.

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Yeah, maybe we should come up for a name for this third culture that we're
      all from.

      NuNomad

  • http://www.getinthehotspot.com/ Get In The Hot Spot

    Hi Carmen, thanks for the list and intro, Milosh, you're talented, great graphics and web designs. I love the list too. It's me. I have 2 passports to add to the general confusion. Might get another one day. Lol. From me in Australia via Costa Rica, New Zealand, France, Zimbabwe, Laos, the USA and even the UK, my original starting point! Happy travels to all of us:)

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Wow Annabel, you've been to some pretty exotic places. That's cool

      NuNomad

  • Marina Visconti

    Well, I move like only 50 time in my live,
    actually have only two passports and no driving licence now (didn´t renew for 7 years),
    Cancelled two Visa (cc) in the last year,
    Speak only 5 languages but the number 5 I am just starting,
    … I think I dont feet yet…

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Wow – 5 languages?! I'd say you fit.

      NuNomad

  • http://www.nunomad.com Ricardo

    22. You're homeless, but you're not pushing a shopping cart through city streets.

    Answer #1 is something I always struggle with. Even today, when I arrive in Southern California (“home” as per my driving license address) I struggle to answer that question. My friends' replies are either: “He's from Thailand.” or “He's from everywhere.” These days, I often just say, “I'm a hobo.”

    • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

      Or maybe, “you're pushing a shopping cart through a store where you can't
      read a label on anything”

      NuNomad

  • http://the-dame.com The Dame

    Im from all over South Africa but I lived in the UK for 9yrs and Australia for 2yrs so far. Im currently travelling in Thailand :D

  • http://the-dame.com The Dame

    I most definitely am then!

  • http://the-dame.com The Dame

    Im from all over South Africa but I lived in the UK for 9yrs and Australia for 2yrs so far. Im currently travelling in Thailand :D

  • Isabel

    Haha, I so agree with all of these!! :) I especially like the one about how your life story involves saying “and then we moved…” about 5 times. So true. :P

  • Jessica K

    23) Forgetting what race you are at times.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Anna-Nogay-Durmus/100000237072760 Anna Nogay Durmus

    This is definitely about my kids! 9 year old carries 3 passports and  struggles with Question #1. 2 year old has lived in 2 countries, has just recently moved to the third one and has been to 11 countries already (on 3 continents!). 

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